Open Relationship to the Inside
What if monogamy could feel expansive, mysterious, and alive?
"Open Relationship to the Inside" is a transformative 1:1 or couple consultation format designed for those in a committed relationship who sense that monogamy is not the opposite of openness — but an invitation to depth, integration, and inner multiplicity.
Instead of opening your relationship outwards, you open it inwards.
This work draws on:
Mirroring the guiding image by Peter Schellenberg
Shadow integration, voice dialogue, and Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Playful, body-based practices that make room for mystery and Eros
Conscious agreements and emotional individuation
Who is this for?
Couples feeling tension around desire, freedom, or fantasies
Partners who explored (or considered) polyamory and want to integrate insights
Lovers wanting to grow without outsourcing aliveness to "the new"
Monogamous couples ready to reimagine connection, intimacy, and self-inquiry
What We Do in a Session
Each session is uniquely tailored, and may include:
Mapping your inner polyamory (the wild one, the safe one, the dreamer…)
Reflecting and transforming guiding images
Exploring “new relationship energy” as a tool of presence with each other
Redesigning your Relationship Agreement to include shadow, longing & play
Embodied and imaginal inquiry (movement, language, ritual)
🎁 Start with a Free Connection Call (15min)
A no-pressure space to feel if this work resonates with your current questions or challenges.
💎 Book a Full Online Session (60min – 111CHF / 120€ / 140 $)
Private session via Zoom
For individuals or couples
Language: English or German
Schedule Your Call.
Anna
"Working with David felt like stepping into a new kind of relationship. One that starts within. In the safe space he created, I was able to explore parts of myself I usually keep hidden: longing, uncertainty, fear of loss. Through movement and body awareness, I could listen more deeply to myself.
What surprised me most was how this internal shift rippled outward. After the session, I began to communicate more openly with my partner, not from a place of neediness or defense, but from clarity and groundedness. I feel safer now, not because my partner changed, but because I’m meeting myself with more honesty and presence.
We’ve started to explore each other more attentive, more spacious, more curious. What I experienced with David was the beginning of an open relationship with myself — one that’s now reflected in my relationship with my partner. It deepened our intimacy and gave us permission to meet each other beyond roles and routines and performing."
Max
"David’s intimacy coaching helped me recognize that the most important openness starts on the inside.
His calm and attuned presence made it easy to stay with my own experience without pressure, without expectations. I learned to feel my boundaries more clearly, and to name what I actually need in moments of connection.
That might sound simple, but it changed how I show up in my relationships. I don’t feel like I have to perform anymore and I just have to be real. That’s a big challenge and a huge relief."
Lena
"Our session was like meeting myself in the dark — no distractions, no masks. In that honest space, I discovered parts of me I thought I had forgotten.
This wasn’t about relating to someone else. It was the beginning of opening up with my inner world.
Now I trust that if I stay connected to myself, connection with others will follow — and flow."