Recommendations
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Some links are german only because we’re based in Zurich, Switzerland
Workshops
Vision Quest - www.wildundlebendig.ch
The New Tantra - www.thenewtantra.com
Radical Honesty - www.radical-honesty.ch
Primal Childhood Deconditioning Retreat - https://www.pujalepp.com
Game of Transformation - https://transformationgamefindhorn.com/
Books
“Playing with Fire” - The Spiritual Path of Intimate Relationship” - Justin Patrick Pierce, Londin Angel Winters https://amzn.to/3OK7PJ9
“Das Nein in der Liebe - Abgrenzung und Hingabe in der erotischen Beziehung - Peter Schellenbaum - https://amzn.to/46RPZvM
“Erleuchteter Sex - Ekstase als spiritueller Weg” - David Deida - https://amzn.to/4ebzCg0
“Zeit für Weiblichkeit: Der tantrische Orgasmus der Frau” - Diana Richardson - https://amzn.to/3XreNYt
“Warum Liebe wehtut - eine soziologische Erklärung” - Eva Illouz - https://amzn.to/4gdjwEp
Die Kunst des Liebens” - Erich Fromm - https://amzn.to/4geD4Z0
Not giving a fuck (german) - Beate Absalon - https://amzn.to/3A2P53R
Was Liebe Braucht - Esther Perel - https://amzn.to/3YwHwup
Healing Modalities
Familienstellen (Bert Hellinger)
“Plant Medicine”: Psilocybin, Bufo, Ayahuasca, Kambo, Iboga
Psychonautik: MDMA, LSD, Dark Room
Somatic Experiencing (Peter Levine)
Alexander Technik
Rolfing
Feldenkrais
Well-being
Podcasts
Beziehungskosmos
Ist das normal?
Organic Sexuality
This Might Be Helpful
This Tantric Life
Do you fucking mind?
Online Personality Test
“Jordan Peterson Test” (not free) - https://www.understandmyself.com/
16 Personalities - https://www.16personalities.com
Human Design - https://www.myhumandesign.com/
Astro Chart - https://www.astro.com/horoskop
Gene Keys - https://genekeys.com/
“Men’s Work”
Relationships
Connect card game (School of life) - https://amzn.to/3yKkpU7
Pillow Talk Questions (School of life) - https://amzn.to/4jTnmVc
Relationship anarchy pie chart - https://smorgasbord.plusx.black/
Systemische Aufstellung - https://karlhosang.de/aufstellung-systemisch/
Non-monogamy Venn Diagram - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-monogamy#/media/File:Map-of-Nonmonogamy-3.2-Updated.png
Products
Theragun Mini 2.0 – Electric hand massage gun - https://amzn.to/46ZriO7
Smudging (Switzerland) - Räucherungen und Räuchermischungen aus heimischen Kräutern und Harzen – https://www.fumofumo.ch
Polarity
David Deida Website - https://deida.info/read/
Physical Health
Mike Chang, 60min Flow - https://youtu.be/RwaLPJta8IU?si=YUwdzf95F-k2RoPu
Mady Morrison, 15 Min Stretching - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_tea8ZNk5A
Esoteric perspectives
Spirit Science - Youtube Reihe - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEcMWs6GudljuLw0-Umf97A
Spirituelle Infos (german) - Krankheiten esoterisch erklärt - https://www.spirituelle.info/artikel-liste.php?kat=12&bw=2
Sexuality
Tantra - What is Tantric Sex - https://moderntantra.blogspot.com/p/what-is-tantric-sex
Why humans have sex (study), PDF - https://www.researchgate.net/publication/6227827_Why_Humans_Have_Sex
Sticken und Ficken - https://vimeo.com/16945289
Don’t “spasm orgasm” - https://21daychallenge.com/
Temples
Xtatic Temple (Switzerland) - https://www.xtatic.ch/temple-nights-zurich
Intuitive Wisdom Temple (Switzerland, english) - https://intuitivewisdom.ch/temple-nights/
ISTA (International School of Temple Arts) - https://ista.life/
Female Body
Cervix - https://www.beautifulcervix.com/see-your-own-beautiful-cervix/
Vulva - https://www.thevulvagallery.com/
Communication
Non Violent Communication (NVC), PDF - https://www.schooltransformation.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/Kendrick_NVC_Materials.pdf
NVC, List of emotions, PDF - https://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf
GFK, Liste von Emotionen, PDF - https://www.klausjuergenbecker.de/fileadmin/klausjuergenbecker.de/upload/Downloads/GFK_Listen_ex_GFK_Seminar.pdf
The Work, Byron Katie - https://thework.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/instr_en_18jul2019_ltr.pdf
Radical Honesty - https://www.radicalhonesty.com/
Betty Martin, Wheel of consent - https://bettymartin.org/videos/
Apps
Replika - AI companion https://replika.com/
Paired - Couple’s app https://www.paired.com/
Osho Zen Tarot - https://amzn.to/3yNl1Zg
Google Store oder App Store
Zurich & Dance / Movement
Movement - Experimental Jam - https://www.artof-flow.com/experimental-jam
Movement - Wild Card - https://www.tanzhaus-zuerich.ch/kurse/wild-card
Dancing - Open Dance - https://www.tanzhaus-zuerich.ch/training-workshops-kurse/open-dance-2324
Ecstatic Dance - https://ecstaticdance.ch/dates
Xtatic Dance - https://www.xtatic.ch/ecstaticdance-zurich
Instagram Accounts
https://www.instagram.com/sharingcircle.ch
“Guru Quotes”
Krishnamurti
“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”
“The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence.”
“You can only be afraid of what you think you know.”Adyashanti
“Enlightenment is nothing more than the complete absence of resistance to what is. End of story.”Byron Katie
"It's not your job to like me - it's mine"
"Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don't have to like it... it's just easier if you do."
"As long as you think that the cause of your problem is “out there”—as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering—the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role of victim, that you’re suffering in paradise."
"A thought is harmless unless we believe it. It’s not our thoughts, but our attachment to our thoughts, that causes suffering. Attaching to a thought means believing that it’s true, without inquiring. A belief is a thought that we’ve been attaching to, often for years."
"I am a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
"All I have is all I need and all I need is all I have in this moment."
"Don't be careful. You could hurt yourself."
"When you argue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time."Esther Perel
“Sometimes, when we seek the gaze of another, it isn’t our partner we are turning away from, but the person we have become. We are not looking for another lover so much as another version of ourselves.
“It takes two people to create a pattern, but only one to change it.”Ram Dass
“We're all just walking each other home.”
“Be here now.”Various
“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” ― Wayne Dyer
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” – Jack Kornfield
“Be - don't try to become” ― Osho
“I live my life based on 2 principles. One, I live as if today was my last day on earth. Two, I live today as if I am going to live forever.” ― Osho“What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create.” ― Buddha
“Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” ― Carl Jung
"When we are not connected to our bodies, we lose our sense of reality and vitality." ― Gabor Maté
"The mind is the king of the senses, but the breath is the king of the mind." ― B.K.S Iyengar
ChatGPT Prompts
Relationship Coach (german)
“Ich möchte, dass Sie als Beziehungscoach fungieren. Ich werde einige Details über die beiden an einem Konflikt beteiligten Personen bereitstellen, und es wird Ihre Aufgabe sein, Vorschläge zu machen, wie sie die Probleme lösen können, die sie trennen. Dies könnte Ratschläge zu Kommunikationstechniken oder verschiedenen Strategien zur Verbesserung des Verständnisses der Perspektiven der anderen beinhalten. Meine erste Bitte lautet: "Ich brauche Hilfe bei der Lösung von Konflikten zwischen meinem Partner und mir."
Mind Reader Protocol
“Analyze my communication patterns based on our conversation so far. Tell me what you observe about my thinking style, decision-making approach, and potential blindspots.”
Extreme Devil's Advocate
“Challenge every assumption in my thinking about [topic].
Push back hard on my logic, identify cognitive biases, and propose radically different perspectives.”
Deep Psychology Decoder
“Analyze the psychological mechanics behind my approach to [situation /problem]. What subconscious patterns might be driving my behavior?”
Competitive Framework
“Help me identify where I'm actually competing against myself in [area of life/business] and design a strategy to break self-imposed limitations.”
Reality Distortion Generator
“Help me view [challenge / situation] through the lens of someone with an extraordinary mindset, like Steve Jobs, showing me how they would approach this differently.”
Expert Panel Simulator
“Analyze my [idea/problem] from the perspective of 5 world-class experts in different fields, revealing insights I would miss from a single viewpoint.”
Contrarian Position Builder
“Create a compelling argument against my strongly held belief about [topic], using logic, evidence, and perspective shifts that challenge my thinking.”
Pattern Interruption
“I'm stuck in a loop with [recurring problem]. Create an unconventional intervention that disrupts my established patterns and forces new thinking.”
Belief Excavator
“Help me uncover my true position on [topic] by asking me a series of increasingly deeper questions that reveal my actual beliefs beneath my stated opinions.”
Decision X-Ray
“Analyze my choice between [option A, option B] using psychological frameworks that identify the hidden values and unconscious priorities driving my hesitation.”
Pattern Recognizer
“Review these situations where I felt [emotion]: [list examples]. Identify the common psychological triggers and unrecognized patterns connecting them.”
Mental Model Mapper
“Based on how I've described [problem, situation], identify which cognitive frameworks I'm using and blind spots these create in my thinking.”
Value Hierarchy Builder
“Through targeted questions about my choices in [area of life], reveal my actual hierarchy of values versus what I think they are.”
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